There are times when we are shy to express our love for fear of embarrassing the other person or embarrass ourselves hesitate to say «I love you» and try to communicate the idea in other words.
We say, «Take care» «Do not drive fast,» «Be good» «No fumes». But these really are different ways to say «I love you» «You’re important to me» «I care what happens to you» «I want you to be wrong.» We are sometimes very strange. The only thing I want to say and the only thing to say is the only thing to say NO NO dare to say it. And yet because the feeling is real and the need to say is so strong we use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never communicated at all and the other person feels ignored and unloved. So we must LISTEN TO LOVE in the words that other people tell us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often the way of saying things is even more important. A nickname that lovingly carries more affection and love that the feelings are expressed so insincere An impulsive kiss hug or say «I LOVE YOU» even though the words say something different. Any expression of a person’s concern for another says «I love you». Sometimes the expression is vulgar sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very carefully to the love they contain. But very often it is there under the surface. A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or for not cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if you listen carefully you will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do the right thing to be successful. Unfortunately their concern and love for his son emerge in his scolding. But it is also love. A daughter returns home late after his father’s permission and confronted with bitter words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if you listen carefully if you really listen you will hear the love under the anger. «I was worried about you,» says the father «because I care and because I love you.’re Important to me.» We say «I love you» in many ways: With birthday gifts with little notes and drawn with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love when we remain silent without a word and sometimes even talking abruptly. Many times we have to show love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express, and we still only understand and expect to hear … The situation is that love does not always understand the language of love that the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what you mean and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to speak the language of it. We must therefore strive Play Love Actually The truth is that people in our world we rarely hear each other. We heard the words but did not hear in the actions that accompany those words or other factions. People just listen rejection or misunderstanding. They see the love that is there under the surface even when the words sound bitter. We love to listen to those around us. If we listen carefully we will discover that we are much more loved than we think. Listen to love and discover that after all the world is a loving place.
LOVE is happy.
It makes us laugh.
It makes us sing.
It makes us look for a reason.
It makes us mourn.
It makes us ask.
It makes us give.
But above all things.
It makes us LIVE.
Not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person can not be lonely even when alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely.
It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. The matter is to be present TO someone.
So remember: If you love someone tell them. Remember to always say what you feel. Never be afraid to express yourself.
Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you. Seize the day and have no qualms. And the most important thing. Stay close to your real friends and your family because it helped you become the person you are today and that’s the most important. You can pass this message to your friends in my particular case I wish to convey my love and express it in the same language of you my friends. I really love you and hear your love for me. The difference between expressing love and the bitterness is the bitterness that sometimes last longer.
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